Dina said me this astonishing article from the UK Daily Mail, which shows one case where a woman chose abortion over and over.
Her first abortion came when she was 17, following a bitterly regretted drunken encounter with a colleague at an office party.
[...]Her bold decision to speak out about her abortions comes after it was revealed that the NHS spends more than £50 million a year on repeat terminations.
One third of the 189,000 abortions carried out in England and Wales in 2010 involved women who’d had at least one before. In some cases, a staggering seven abortions had previously been carried out on the same woman.
The first one… was when she… got pregnant when she ended up in bed with a 22-year-old colleague called Brian.
‘Although I knew I could get pregnant, we didn’t use contraception. I just didn’t think it would happen to me…
[...]Michelle visited her GP and found out she was entitled to a free NHS abortion at her local hospital.
[S]he met John, 35, an Irish soldier stationed at barracks near her home, and they embarked on a three-week fling. It left her with another unplanned, and unwanted, pregnancy.
[...]Michelle was once again granted an NHS abortion at nine weeks — this time at a private London clinic, in July 2000.
Then, a year later, she met her current partner, Paul, at a local pub.
[...]Michelle says she was open about her abortions, and told Paul, 36 — who is an estates manager — that she didn’t want any more children.
[...][I]n July, Michelle was going through a rocky period with Paul when she discovered she was pregnant again.
She says: ‘At the time we were barely speaking, as we were both so stressed out. We hadn’t been intimate for months, but one night relations thawed and we had sex.
‘Until then, we’d been using condoms but this time we didn’t. Although I thought about getting the morning-after pill, I ended up leaving it to chance.’
[...]At nine weeks, Michelle was granted a third NHS abortion, at another London clinic.
Three taxpayer-funded abortions for three pregnancies brought on by this woman’s own free decisions.
In the UK, abortions, IVF and single motherhood are all taxpayer-funded. If women had to pay for their own abortions, their own IVF, their own out-of-wedlock births, then maybe they would not be making decisions like this woman has. When you pay people to do something, you mustn’t be surprised when they do that thing more. Lowering the cost of anything means that more people will buy it. And making it free makes even more people do it.
The first step to ending abortion is that society needs to understand that virtually every woman who has one is at least partly responsible for her own decision-making. Very often, when it comes to abortion, we seem to place blame on men and assume that women can do no wrong – that they are victims of men. But clearly that is not always true. We seem to have a real problem in this society holding women accountable for making poor decisions. Maybe that needs to change? Pregnancy does not happen by accident – both the man and the woman have to make a choice to have recreational sex when they aren’t ready to welcome a baby into the world. We have to stop looking at people who have recreational sex as victims and expect more from them.